Is your marriage on the rocks?

Marriage-Works

Marriage & Sex Therapy

It's NOT just ALL talk! 

Ride the virtual or 'face to face' wave to a better marriage. 

Sherri Scott-Berner/ CBT.

Pschological Clinical Cognitive-Behavioral Marriage and Sex Therapist

Intimacy:   Have you been desiring the type of intimacy that exceeds a glorified friendship, or just feeling like room-mates?Do you wish things could be like they once were, fun, fresh and exciting?Would you like to remember what it feels like to miss each other when you are separated (away on business or even just gone for one day?)Or have you never reached that level of intimacy and are hoping that maybe you could still obtain it?

Sex --    Perhaps you want to have more sex (or less sex) than your partner, or the sexual experiences you do have together seem flat, inexpressive or passionless.   Or maybe you are suffering from an affair that you or your spouse have had, and you have been deeply hurt by your partner's infidelity? You may be feeling unsure of  how or even if  it is possible to reconcile your feelings, and be able to reconnect again and move on as a trusting couple.

Communication:Do you find that you as a couple seem to no longer know how to communicate? Is expressing your true feelings to your partner always a concern because what you say seems to usually upset your partner, (no matter how you seem to do it?) Is there a tendency to stone-wall one another preventing one or the other from truly speaking their heart and mind? Does it seem like you are beginning to argue about everything, even the little unimportant things of life? Or do you feel that your problems are insurmountable and no longer even worth the effort of resolving? Do the same issues seem to keep resurfacing even though you thought they had been dealt with? Or maybe you are beginning to wonder if you ever love each other at all? 

Hope:  Take heart! You are not alone. These are all common issues that most married couples face at some time during their marriage. Although they seem like they are swallowing you up,  and it would be easier to throw in the towel; these are all issues that can be dealt with successfully with just some quality time, whole hearted effort, good communication tools and a little grace from one another. Once given the opportunity to understand each other more completely, you both will be able to see more clearly how each of you contributes to the relationship - both in your own individual ways - making your relationship both unique and valuable.

 Are My Counselling Methods right for you? 

· Are you open to Christian Principals? 

· Are you in a heterosexual marriage?        

· Is your marriage ‘in crisis’ or in need of a serious over-haul?

· Are you willing to ‘give it all you’ve got’ to repair your marriage?

· Are you ready to experience your spouse in a brand new way and maybe even fall in love all over again?